Mr. Speranza, You appear to think that "breaking" the hymen is the same as losing one's virginity. This is not the usual meaning of "virginity," even though it is a "test" of virginity in some ethnic groups. A broken hymen is just that, although, as I say, it is taken by the medically illiterate as a sign that a woman has had sexual intercourse, which, when I was in school counted as losing one's virginity. I could point out to you that despite the religious and cultural focus on the virginity of women, men, too, are virgins until they have had intercourse--one way or another--but I doubt you would listen. Sue Trevor Northridge CA > In a message dated 4/30/2010 6:09:42 P.M., _rpaul@xxxxxxxxx > (mailto:rpaul@xxxxxxxx) > > quotes my: > > >>I know a female who lost her virginity when riding > a horse (That is > actually pretty common.) > > and comments: > > >Among acrobats, perhaps. > > No. If that had been the case, I would have specified > it: "it is pretty > common, amongst acrobats, for females to lose their > virgnities, while reading > a horse. > > For an acrobat is NOT a common profession. > > My understanding is that in some sort of excercises > involving the > stretching of legs, etc, (riding a horse, a bike, etc.) can > produce the breaking of > the hymen. I suppose there are attested cases of such > "losses of > virginity". > > Emily Dickinson. > > JL Speranza > > ------------------------------------------------------------------ > To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, > vacation on/off, > digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html > ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html