On 2/17/06, Andy Amago <aamago@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > Nobody's talking about coddling. We're talking cuddling and not beating. Again, an argument based on simplistic and false dichotomies. Cuddling is vital. So are chores and bedtime stories; my daughter got lots of all these things. Spanking is useful only in moderation and only on those young enough to learn its lesson without feeling horribly humiliated. If you must use political analogies, spanking isn't shock and awe or razing cities and salting the earth. It's Bill Clinton quietly moving two carrier battle groups to the vicinity of Taiwan when the PRC started rattling its missles, an unequivocal statement that some forms of behavior are unacceptable and will not be ignored. -- John McCreery The Word Works, Ltd. 55-13-202 Miyagaya, Nishi-ku Yokohama 220-0006, JAPAN ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html