Mike Geary writes, "It seems to me that where and with whom a woman seeks her pleasure is her business, not yours. If she prefers older men or younger men or mean men or black men or red men or even white men, or rich men or cowboys or gay cowboys, then that's her business." Reminds me of the old joke about three women discussing their husbands' performance. A. says, "My husband's a salesman. He's so smooth." B. says, "My husband's a truck driver. We like it rough." C. says, "My husband works for Microsoft. He sits on the edge of the bed and tells me how great it's going to be real soon now." John