Just before all the excitement of the show I moved into a bungalow and Lofty's parents moved in with us as they had a problem in the street where they were living so we had to get them out and find them somewhere else to live,so we both sold houses and moved in together, Lofty had one sister and she told us that if we took her parents in she would forgo whatever was to come when they died as long as when we died we left everything to her daughter,which we agreed to do,a few weeks after we moved in she changed her mind and said it was not fair that her daughter got everything and she wanted her share, she caused us so much trouble that things were not too good between us and we were trying to find a way to separate from each other but it was very difficult and we were living together for 13 years,every time Lofty's sister came up to see us there was bad feeling she hated me but I don't know why and I don't think she did either really, it was in 1999 that things came to a head we decided to go on holiday for the new year and would decide what could be done when we came back, It was about March Time when Lofty's mother came to tell us that she had her name down to go into a retirement flat which had just been built, they moved in a few weeks later and the bungalow had been sold,we managed to get a semi detached house in Castle Cary which we moved into in June 2000 it was not what we really wanted but we could not afford anything else as we had to pay Lofty's mother some money from the sale of the bungalow, going back to 1994 I had some cataract operation and three months later I had lost the sight in that eye,then I had the other eye done and the surgeon told me that I had nine holes In my Retina but he managed to restore some sight in it, watch this space for next episode kind regards from Jenny Ray and doggies skype name jenny.mock97