At RAF Odiham they used to put on a dance or disco each week for the air men and the local girls used to go there to the dances,I had a couple of boyfriends before I was introduced to Lofty,I was at one of the disco's with one of my friends,when her boyfriend came over to me with him and said that Lofty would like to dance with you,we danced a few dances then Lofty suggested we went down to the bar to have a drink,which was good as it was dark in the disco and I could not see what he looked like,when we got into the bar and I saw what he was like I was pleasantly surprised he was very tall and good looking, he asked me how I was getting home and I told him I had a taxi booked,he told me to cancel it as he had a car outside and he would take me home,I told him that my sister was at the dance also and he would have to take her as well as we had to stay together,this he agreed to do,well we used to meet on a regular basis after that and during his time I knew him in the RAF he had to do a tour in Norway the Bahamas and also Northern Ireland after about a year Lofty was demobbed from the RAF and went back to North Devon where his family lived,I went and had a couple of weeks summer holiday with him but I also went to Spain with my sister which had been booked,we had gone the year previous and wanted to go again,while we were on our Spanish holiday of course because I was partly sighted I used to trip over things and bump into things the currier who was with our tour told my sister she should look after me as I was always drunk,my sister did not tell her it was because I could not see,Lofty was a bit put out because I went to Spain but as I told him it was booked before I met him,I also went to Devon to meet with Lofty's parents who were very nice,after a year of Lofty being in Devon and me being in Hampshire my foster Father suggested that I should move down to Devon as I had a house there and I could decide for myself how I wanted things done,when I moved to Devon I didn't know anyone much but soon made friends with the jobs that I did,as I already have said I had the job in the hospital which I loved but when I had to finish that job I then went to Manor House in Torquay,there I learned typing long cane training among other things,I had a really good three months down there, when I went back home I used my long cane for two years then decided to apply for my first guide dog, watch this space for next episode, kind regards from Jenny Ray and doggies skype name jenny.mock97