Hi Malcolm, oh yes that's for sure. It's so important and means such a lot having such lovely friends as well as our family and yes Carol and I will treasure our long lasting special friendship forever. As you say it's worth it's weight in gold. It's longer than some marriages last haha. Carol and I have met once. My dad drove me to her flat so she's met my parents. We all had an amazing day. I met Carol's carer Julia too she's so nice. They both did a lovely buffet for us and yes lots of that chocolate fix of course goes without saying haha. Carol and I got emotional it was so amazing to finally meet. That was a few years ago now so it would be lovely if we could meet up again. Love Clare xxxx