Hi Malcolm, oh yes it's so sad but I can't believe people can be so cruel. What a good thing that most people aren't like that but of course will still be on my guard. I'm sure I will be fine with my new friends as they do seem so genuine and of course as they are a lot older than me that will go in my favour. Keep you posted how it goes tomorrow. Sadly that church trees group is very cliquey and as Kate turned against me she made sure the others did too. They don't seem to have minds of their own they seem to do everything she says. What she says goes but to be honest I'm sure they are all scared of her as she's such a bully as I have found out not a nice person. I don't need people like that. I know now they were all in on that whole plan as they all know each other. I know I was always an outsider in that group. They only wanted me when it suited them and on their terms but as soon as things didn't go Kate's way then I was dropped. I'm better off out of there and am putting it all behind me. Love Clare xxxx