Hello Neil. I think you will find belonging to the char group helpful Try to switch on for short periods during the day, you do not need to reply unless you have time. I am one of the older members of the group and do not get out much on account of age related problens so I enjoy the companionshiip even though I do not always join in or even understand sometimes what is going on. Luckily although I am 94 years old I am still able to look after myself and only need help wiy houdework, shopping anf abit of DIY now and again. Love to your mother. Elizabeth -----Original Message----- From: neil bell - Email Address: neil.bell3@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent On: 24/08/2012 02:48 Sent To: guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx - Email Address: guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [guide.chat] knew to this, Hi, Just joined up recently, been listening to all the chattering racket, amazing what you can learn. I'll see how this goes before I go any further as I have a disabled wife to look after virtually 24 hours a day so I can only come on this site mostly during the night. Have a good day all of you. Neil Bell