Hi Jordan. I know what you mean I should be keeping all this stuff personal I know friends are very supportive and bless every-one on here if any-one wants to stay in contact with me off list I would really appreciate that. Of course I'm very sorry to hear that Jamie has family problems I wouldn't wish this on any-one but things haven't been right for a while still I won't say any more on the subject so we all can enjoy chatting about lighter subjects and having lots of fun like we were doing before. Like I said before when things were starteing to go badly I ddidn't mention it because I dond't want to bring doom and gloom to the list. Many thanks again and kind regards. Sarah