Hi Vanessa. I'mglad you had a good week-end with the sport and that roast dinner sounds lovely I haven't had one of those for ages. Jamie can cook a good roast can't wait to taste it. OH taht will be so lovely for you to have your Grandchildren take turns to stay with you through the summer it will be exciting for them to I'm sure. I used to think when I was little that staying with my grandparents was really cool because it meant I got to go away without Mum and Dad and it felt really grown-up even though they were just half an hour away. Well I agree with you its difficult for all of us as we all have various problems but good friends stick together and we are all there for each other and that's how it should be. That was awful to read about your first husband not wanting a blind wife as we've often said on here taht's very shallow but now you have Steve which was meant to be. love to you and him and SCott of course. The animal chat has been very quiet lately. Take care. Love Sarah xxxxxxxxxxxx