OH I understand how annoying it is when you want to do a course and can't find a friend or any-one to help as I ahve wanted to go to a cookery school for so long so I can learn to cook more easy but yummy things from scratch and not have so many ready meals but for a start its the cost and then its finding some-one to help so i can have one to one as social service say they only help with basic techniques and don't teach you recipes as such. taht's so bad that no-one from the comunity centre can help you do that course as it would be so good for you and very theraputic and a good way of making friends. Its also annoying when we want to go to a gig or something or have a week-end or holiday away and can't get some-one to go with and they're all off out living it up and most of us don't have enough hours or it would take forever to save up enough hours to go on holiday withy a carer and even with things like vitalize it costs us so much more than it does for a sighted person going on holiday as we have to pay for the carers to go as well and most of us are not working and on benefits. They just don't get how hard it is for us at all and I know it can be very frustrating. They would have a nice job going on a free holiday all expenses paid and also vitalize stopped the buddy skeme where they try and match people up with some-one with similar interests which is ideal as organised holidays are often not reall like holidays as you have to be back to the buss by certain times and things like that. OH torch holidays they wouldn't take us to the pub because they said it was against their ethos and its not even like we were getting drunk we just didn't want to go back to our rooms so early and on one occasion we only got an hour in Brighten on our last day because it was the open ceremony of the olympics and some of us includeing me weren't bothered about it as we ahdn't paid all that money to sit and watch tell so since there were people with cars as well as a mini buss some-one should have offered to bring some of us back later if we wanted to stay as after all we had paid hunderds of pounds for that holiday and should be able to have the freedom to do what we like and not having that taken away with us as its our right just as it is for sighted people as well. There I go again getting on my soap box but its good we're all in the same situation and can do this. Take care. Love Sarah xxxxxxxxx