[guide.chat] In Reply To: [guide.chat] Be posotive

From: "Carol O'Connor" <missbossyboots33@xxxxxxxxx>
To: "guide Chat List" <guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Date: Sun, 24 Jul 2011 23:33:19 +0100
Hi Vanessa 
goodness you have had it bad too 
we never know what we all have to go through unless groups like this are made 
for us all to open up 
great 

I would have had a sister two eyars oler then me she was called 
Marjorie 
she died in cot through cot death she was 18th months old 


mum told me i had a brother inside her too called John he would of been just 
one year younger then our julie wow 
she name her baby John but he died after birth 
amazing 
My god would of been 8 children then wow 


Vanessa our mums have been through bad times 
in the 50's war and so on after the war i mean poor times hard times but happy 
times 
mum always told me that in them days you could leave your front and back doors 
open for a whole day and nothing would get pinched wow respect in them days was 
wonderful 
every single day when we were little kiddies 
mum would get the milkman shout good morning mrs o'connor 
the postman too and the dustbin men as they carried bags of coal on there back 
in tehm days wow my god bet they had back aches in them days 
Outside everybody said hello or good morning or good by 
As kids we had to say thank you otherwised go with out respect was great 
Vanessa 
its not all that long ago really you have been blind but my god you must find 
it hard at times 
I get embarrassed because in stores i am looking straight at a display board 
and talking to it hahahehehehehehe 
oh my god can laugh at it now but thinking my carer is there my carer shouts 
hey carol what are you doing 
I am over here oh my god 
Lost for words 
right take care 
Love Carol x.x.x.x. 

-----Original Message-----
From: vanessa pugh - Email Address: shannon17@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent On: 24/07/2011 22:21
Sent To: guide chat - Email Address: guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [guide.chat] Be posotive

Carol, what a difficult time with the health in your family, I was lucky as 
didn't lose my sight until the age of 41, had just become a grandma for the 
first time, my husband didn't want a blind wife so we divorced, that hurt of 
course but there was no point in trying to make him stay as I had to learn to 
adjust with or without him, was hard and scary but I survived with the help of 
my teenaged kids, told them that although help was welcome didn't want them to 
babysit me and to get on with their own lives, couldn't stop them growing up 
and having fun and so all did exams, got jobs and left home, soom after had a 
chance to go away on a residential course, scary or what, but went for the 
training and change of scene as it was in one of my favourite parts of the 
world, thought it was good to go away with some one else paying, there I met a 
nice young toy boy and we have been married for 8 years, happy and posotive 
story , so be patient girls, it can happen so keep going out  and you may find 
your prince charming in the most unusual places, keep smiling and looking 
fantastic, it may just work for you, happy thoughts, Vanessa xx
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