Hi Clare thanks for your kind words, I remember when I first joined and I called Vanessa on skype she sounded almost afraid to speak to me as she told me I was not part of the chat list,I assured her I was but she told me to check I told her I was getting all the emails and I think it was her who got Alex on the case and he helped me,you are quite right it is nice to be able to support and care about each other even though some of us have never met,we get used to each other in other ways,it is nice to do the voice mails so we can hear what each other sounds like although I know a number of us have skype which is good also, long may we stay together as a group, love from Jenny M