Good morning Carol. Where did you find all that at this time of morning. I'm still half asleep. But I agree with you. Everything you said is true and a good guide to work to. So everyone lets make the effort and turn this chat line into the best ever. sleepy Malcolm. xxx Good morning all Hope your all well gosh had some fun all last night didn't we? I am looking forward to us all writing our life stories now to find out more about one and other which weill make us understand one and other more and we can give support to one and other got nothing to be ashamed to write in after all just as long as nobody forwarded our emails to people off group which shouldn't be allowed because after all.this group is strictly for chat users only and if nobody is interested in contributing at all for months and months then wonder why they joined . I was on group two years ago found out some one was forwarding my emails to outsiders wow I got shock because a complete stranger said to me oh I believe you did this and that when I asked that person how she knew she wouldn't tell me That is how I got to know wow very childish and stupid a group is for just the group only and chat on group only when I asked this person who this other person was they wouldn't tell me at that time I thought to myself at that time my god all this telling tales out of school and i was thinking oh my god had few people doing that when I ask that person if she was on the group three years ago sorry not two years well she said yes but never come on she told me she was on the group for 12 month but never came on it at all just stayed on listened in for 12 month wow Sad . so yes as I was saying these groups are for using and chatting and having fun sending articles jokes funny storeis recepies news its our own chat group and our entertainment on here Serious stuff as well and if some one is so low we help them as much as possible and lift them up by giving them loads of support I am one of the lucky ones happy in my own little way and I wouldn't like to show off because its not my nature it might sound like I am showing off but its just my bubbly personality my way of life I think its nice to chat about what we get up too if I didn't have carer or good family then I would be very low and depressed. but thankfully I have brilliant carer and good family We have to make best of what we got and do what we can in this cruel world out their and bad recession etc us Disabled can't help the way we are the way we look how we were born etc way of life that we all have to accept we just carry on and do the best to our ability. never compare against others for example,if some one can't do as half of the others can then we need to feel for that person and not show off by saying Oh i am better then you. Not reality reality is,the person has lots of problems with her or his life we need to accept that person what they are not laugh or make fun of that person just help that person I am speaking out alot more now these days on chat and this is what its all about speaking up helps I think lots are shy to speak up but my god it helps to over come your shyness by speaking up about your feelings so lets all enjoy one and other on here chat later Love Carol xxxx