- ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jim Bensman" <junkmailno@xxxxxxxxxxx> To: <geocaching@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Friday, December 30, 2005 1:51 PM Subject: [GeoStL] Re: You catch more flies with honey, than vinegar "As to the many suggestions that I should have personally confront the person: The person who used "ni**er" posted hate speech directed at Native Americans on the listserve a couple of years ago. As Paul pointed out, I confronted him and was promptly set to no post for confronting the bigot." "I will not be quite when people spew hate. People being quite is what allowed Hitler and the KKK to flourish. Hate speech drives people to kill and do hateful things. People have an obligation to stand up when people spew hate speech." If I'm not mistaken, I believe everyone is saying you should have walked up to the person as soon as the offending comment was made and confronted them right then. That is when you "have an obligation to stand up" . But you kept quiet at the time. Instead, you hide behind a keyboard at a later date, dragging everyone else into something they weren't aware of and most of them would have dealt with on the spot. This could have been taken care of in two minutes when it first happened instead of this big hulabaloo. Gale **************************************** Our WebPage! Http://WWW.GeoStL.com For List Info or To make _ANY_ changes, including unsubscribing from this list, click -----> http://www.freelists.org/list/geocaching Missouri Caches Scheduled to be Archived http://tinyurl.com/87cqw