Hi Bruce. We are deeply saddened to hear of Debbie's death. From the small amount of time we spent with her she came across as a very loving, devoted wife and mother. From what we have observed you could not have possibly done anything more for her. As the marriage oath states 'in sickness and in health' and you certainly did that. You must be totally exhausted and it is now time to think of yourself and hopefully with the support of your family at this difficult time you will adjust to the situation. Thank you also for the massive contribution to the gawlerites web site and for the constant emails re where to purchase the best organic food....even in your suffering you were thinking of others. Sorry we will not be there on Tuesday. We are joining Patti and Richard (NZ) and attending the 5 day follow up program at the Gawler Foundation. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this very sad time. A big hug and good karma your way. Love Stella and Howard xoxo