[bct] Re: thoughts on blind people meeting other blind people

  • From: "Hope" <musicofhope@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: <blindcooltech@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Fri, 4 Nov 2005 08:25:25 -0500

Hello Dana,
That's hilarious.  I always tell people that I need to check the blind club 
roster to see if his or her name is on the list.  So, you're not alone in this. 
 <grin>  I like the blindernet thing though, it almost sounds like a real 
network.  lol

  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Dana Niswonger 
  To: blindcooltech@xxxxxxxxxxxxx 
  Sent: Friday, November 04, 2005 2:18 AM
  Subject: [bct] Re: thoughts on blind people meeting other blind people

  Hi Mary:
  Yes, I do have a couple of thoughts on this issue.  One of the most 
ridiculous stereotypes I deal with here in the south is that as blind people, 
we all either already do, or should know each other.  I am ask constantly by 
sighted folks if I know this or that person.  It gets so irritating sometimes 
that once, here I go with my smart mouth again, I responded by saying, yes, we 
are all connected together on a telepathic blindernet and we all talk to each 
other in our sleep instead of dreaming because we can't see.  O K guys, give me 
a break on this one, I have already admitted and owned my smart mouth.  Also, 
in these days, I will not stop to speak with someone if I am walking , 
regardless of who it is, unless I know them.  Hope this helps you feel better 
about what you did, I'd do the same thing.

    ----- Original Message ----- 
    From: Mary Emerson 
    To: blindcooltech@xxxxxxxxxxxxx 
    Sent: Thursday, November 03, 2005 8:44 PM
    Subject: [bct] thoughts on blind people meeting other blind people

    Hi all,

    I wonder if any of you have any thoughts on the following scenario:

    I've had a couple instances where I have been walking home from the bus 
stop, minding my own business, and somebody has stopped their car beside me, 
usually a teen ager, and honked his horn in my face and yelled, "Where are you 
going!" I came to find out later that he had a blind passenger in the car with 
him and they wanted me to meet this individual because she was blind. I'd had a 
very trying day and was in absolutely no mood to deal with people who did not 
have the common courtesy to say politely, "Excuse me, ma'am" and then proceed 
with their request.

    I have also lived in places where a blind young person moved in and thought 
I should talk to them because they were blind, but there was just no time for 
it; my schedule was hectic, and their day consisted of sitting outside their 
door, listening to what I call "jungle music" and talking to their boy friend. 
True, I suppose I should have stopped to say something, but I really had 
nothing to say because they had no interests similar to mine, and my friends 
said the individuals involved had attitude problems, wanting everyone to feel 
sorry for them due to their blindness.

    I suppose in the interest of common courtesy I should have stopped and said 
something, but I did not. These days, having retired, I am still not sure if I 
would do much beyond saying hello if I were in a similar situation; my life is 
not hectic, but when these things happened, I definitely was working more than 
55 hours a week, plus had church obligations, plus paying my bills and doing 
the usual household stuff and shopping stuff, and the days were so busy.

    I think the whole point of this is not so much the blindness thing although 
that's part of it, but I really object to the lack of courtesy in our society. 
It has degenerated to the point that it is very rare these days for anyone to 
politely introduce themselves or be respectful in other ways, such as thanking 
someone for help. I suppose this is a bit old-fashioned and I guess you could 
call me that if you like, but there is such a lack of politeness, and I suspect 
it contributes to the increased unrest going on in this world.

    Ok, I've spoken up; I wonder what others' experiences and thoughts are 
about this.

    And thanks in advance.



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