I second all your sentiments. I also find myself making the same statement about being patient and finding love when you least expect it. Our friend had dinnner with us a few years ago and she said that she was ssaving her money for either taking a trip to Africa or getting married. Well, the very next year, we were beaming at her lovely ship-board wedding. You just never know. and this young woman thought she'd never be asked.
"Joni Colver" <joni.colver@xxxxxxxxxxx> To: <blindcooltech@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Friday, February 24, 2006 8:31 PM Subject: [bct] Re: good question
Often times it is when you least expect it that you meet that special person
you marry. I went to Philadelphia for two weeks in July 1977 to learn to
use the Optacon at what was then Volunteer Services for the Blind. The guy
in charge of the program asked my future-husband to come along to the
airport to help carry luggage. Skip lived in downtown Philly so he showed
me around. He and I went out to dinner and my two weeks in Philadelphia
ended up not being as lonely as I thought they would be. He is partially
sighted and I am for all practical purposes nearly totally blind. We had to
face a lot of issues and decide if we could and would deal with them, just
as Kim and Darren discussed on their podcast. We have been extremely
fortunate in finding apartments, houses and condos within walking distance
of grocery stores and bus stops. I have not tried online grocery shopping
yet, but, if we had a feasible option in that regard we would have a little
more freedom in our choice of housing. We have a grocery cart like Lynnette
and Maria and do our shopping on Saturday mornings before the store gets too
It certainly is a lot easier these days to meet other blind people through the Internet. I went to public school and never met another blind person until I went to a summer camp when I was probably close to junior high school. I think it is important to know and interact with other blind people because we can support, encourage and sometimes inspire one another through our shared experiences.
Don't give up on finding someone. It might just happen when you least expect it. That is how it happened to me.
----- Original Message ----- From: "jamie crowell" <jcrowell@xxxxxxxxxx>
Randy, I am in the same position. I am looking for a guy and a job. I know a
blind couple here in my area who share that same happiness that Kim and
Daron share and I do think that being blind helps. I personally would like
to date a blind guy because we would be more sensitive to each others
needs. When I was in college I lived with three sighted roommates and it was
horrible to say the least. I wish we blind folks weren't so spread out all
over the place. I also wish I had a job. I am sick of being turned down for
"lack of experience" when in fact its because I'm blind.