ok, I give this a thumbs up, and avow that this is my creed for dating, smile
inthane----- Original Message ----- From: "Nimer" <nimerjaber1@xxxxxxxxx>
To: <blind_html@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Wednesday, November 19, 2008 8:02 AM Subject: blind_html How to make a successful first date
I got this from the Fred's Head Companion newsletter, and I like it. Tips for the First Date Posted: 19 Nov 2008 08:27 AM CSTThe first date for a couple is what will set the stage for things to come. It is where the first impressions are established. It can also be the time where things can get really messed up, insuring that another date with this person will neverhappen again. Here are some pointers for what not to do on a first date:1. Don't be late. Although this is not a sure nail in the coffin for future dates with the person, you need to take care and give the other person the respect they deserve.Some people absolutely cannot stand it when the other is late.2. Don't mention marriage on the first date at all. As a matter fact, don't mention it on the second or third either. Be very careful how you introduce the subject ofmarriage as the relationship begins to grow.3. Don't check your email if you bring your first date to your apartment. That's just poor taste. Don't talk on your cell phone either. You should be paying attention to your date. Remember that there is a reason someone invented voice mail. Use itto your advantage.4. Don't lie and make yourself out to be someone you're not. It will catch up to youin the end.5. Knock it off with the 20 questions routine. Don't ask a lot of questions. That'sirritating.6. Don't talk about yourself all the time, your date will not be impressed. In fact, if you like to talk about yourself all the time the other will quickly lose interest. 7. If you are a guy taking a lady out on a first date, don't talk to all your female friends that you run into and ignore your date. The same holds true for the ladies. 8. Don't talk about your past relationships. You can rest assured the other is not interested. 9. Don't talk about past relationships that didn't work. You would be surprised howmany others really do not care. 10. If your apartment is a mess, don't take your date over there.11. Don't forget to flatter and compliment your date. She put in a lot of effort to look wonderful on your date, so it's good for her to hear that she is beautiful. You can probably think of many more things that you shouldn't do on the first date. The important thing is to be the best possible gentleman or lady you can be. It isthat first impression that can make or break a relationship. Thanks Nimer J -- Nimer M. JaberThe information transmitted is intended only for the person or entity to which it is addressed and may contain confidential and/or privileged material. Any review, retransmission, dissemination or other use of, or taking of any action in reliance upon this information by persons or entities other than the intended recipient is prohibited. If you received this in error, please contact the sender via reply e-mail, and delete thematerial from any computer. Website: http://www.empowertheblind.org Phone: (720) (251-4530) blind_html To unsubscribe, please send a blank email to blind_html-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with unsubscribe in the subject line. To access the archives, please visit: //www.freelists.org/archive/blind_html Thanks
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