[bksvol-discuss] Re: stories have powerful effects
- From: "Julie Morales" <mercy421@xxxxxxxxxxx>
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- Date: Mon, 14 Nov 2005 21:14:46 -0500
Maybe, for us, it's more like sneering at the owners, but for a sighted person
who doesn't know blind people and doesn't know anything about guide
dogs...well, that leaves a bad image in their minds about the dogs. It is their
owners, a lot of times, for sure, but we know that. We're familiar with the
training of guide dogs, and we're familiar with how the handlers are supposed
to handle their dogs, but a sighted person may not be, and that's the scenario
that worries most of us. We hit enough brick walls on our own without having to
worry about a well-intentioned funny anecdote and what kind of effect that
might have on someone. Take care.
Julie Morales
To be in your children's memories tomorrow, you need to be in their lives
today. -- Unknown
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From: Gary Petraccaro
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Sent: Monday, November 14, 2005 7:05 PM
Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: stories have powerful effects
I think it's more a question of sneering at the owners.
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From: E.
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Sent: Monday, November 14, 2005 6:34 PM
Subject: [bksvol-discuss] stories have powerful effects
Cindy I assume you mean pass along the story of the guide dog who was so
disruptive because her person did not choose to control her. Pass it along
if you must. I do notice that people tend to pass along stories of how
badly a dog, particularly a guide dog behaves with a lot of glee. I think
it is one thing to pass along stories among ourselves. I do get concerned
when sighted people gleefully pass along stories about how badly a guide
dog behaves, how poorly a guide dog is dealt with by his or her person and
how a guide dog failed and did something wrong like run a light, run their
person into something or whatever. Then sighted folks can use those
stories to be hesitant about renting to those of us with dogs, or letting
us into restaurants and so on. It may be illegal but all of us with dogs
have had issues of access at one time or another.
I know it is far from your intention to do this but be careful with
stoires. They can have powerful results many unintentional. I am sorry if
this sounds harsh but I have had a number of instances when sighted people
just had to come up to me and tell me about bad behavior or guide dogs or
their people.
I am therefore overly cautious about stories of incidents particularly
involving food.
By the way, I have been with Seeing Eye dogs for over thirty years and do
know those stoires from my own experience. But I would be careful telling
them to restaurant owners or hotel operators or landlords, or cabbies, bus
drivers and so forth. We still have barriers to access some of them fueled
by lack of knowledge.
E.
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