[bksvol-discuss] Re: stories have powerful effects

  • From: "Gary Petraccaro" <garyp130@xxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: <bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Mon, 14 Nov 2005 19:05:51 -0500

I think it's more a question of sneering at the owners.

  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: E. 
  To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx 
  Sent: Monday, November 14, 2005 6:34 PM
  Subject: [bksvol-discuss] stories have powerful effects


  Cindy I assume you mean pass along the story of the guide dog who was so 
  disruptive because her person did not choose to control her.  Pass it along 
  if you must.  I do notice that people tend to pass along stories of how 
  badly a dog, particularly a guide dog behaves with a lot of glee.  I think 
  it is one thing to pass along stories among ourselves.  I do get concerned 
  when sighted people gleefully pass along stories about how badly a guide 
  dog behaves, how poorly a guide dog is dealt with by his or her person and 
  how a guide dog failed and did something wrong like run a light, run their 
  person into something or whatever.  Then sighted folks can use those 
  stories to be hesitant about renting to those of us with dogs, or letting 
  us into restaurants and so on.  It may be illegal but all of us with dogs 
  have had issues of access at one time or another.

  I know it is far from your intention to do this but be careful with 
  stoires.  They can have powerful results many unintentional.  I am sorry if 
  this sounds harsh but I have had a number of instances when sighted people 
  just had to come up to me and tell me about bad behavior or guide dogs or 
  their people.

  I am therefore overly cautious about stories of incidents particularly 
  involving food.

  By the way, I have been with Seeing Eye dogs for over thirty years and do 
  know those stoires from my own experience.  But I would be careful telling 
  them to restaurant owners or hotel operators or landlords, or cabbies, bus 
  drivers and so forth.  We still have barriers to access some of them fueled 
  by lack of knowledge.

  E.  

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