U know, all, I think a major problem here is that the discussions on both the adult & rudeness thread revolves around shades of gray. Obviously, if a book is available in an adult bookstore, it's adult. Clearly, if some1 calls some1 else a stupid so-&-so, they're rude. From there on, however, things begin to get grey, & what seems rude to 1 person may not seem at all rude to another & what appears to be adult content to 1 may not seem so to another. Perhaps understanding that most of the time we're dealing in grey areas might help folks tone down responses just a bit & also might help folks to give a little info as to why they rated a particular book adult or no. Just a piece of my mind, which, arguably, I can't afford to give, but... -- Change the world--1 deed at a time Jackie McBride Check out my homepage at: www.abletec.serverheaven.net & please join my fight against breast cancer <http://teamacs.acsevents.org/site/TR?px=1790196&pg=personal&fr_id=3489> To unsubscribe from this list send a blank Email to bksvol-discuss-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx put the word 'unsubscribe' by itself in the subject line. To get a list of available commands, put the word 'help' by itself in the subject line.