lol. When I did explain to my daughter the meaning of the word I also said that I hadn't known what it meant until my husband (her father) explained it when he used it. I find it much easier to say than next to last--and it also has a prettier sound. II wonder if my son-iin-law might not have occasion to use it as he plays hockey and enjoys watching other sports.Talking about where games are played or scores who the goalie was or will be or who the pitcher is to be in the penultimate game of the season or some such the word might com in handy. smile I'll never know, though, unless he appens to use the word around me. He's a good goy, actually--a wnderful husband and father. Cindy Wish List (i.e., books wanted added to the collection) and books-being-scanned list available at sites below Wish List: https://wiki.benetech.org/display/BSO/Bookshare+Wish+List Books Being Scanned List: https://wiki.benetech.org/display/BSO/Books+Being+Scanned+List --- On Sun, 7/5/09, Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx <Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx> wrote: From: Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx <Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx> Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: [bksvol-discuss]writers who use big words To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Date: Sunday, July 5, 2009, 5:41 PM If you read a lot then you are naturally going to have a larger vocabulary than those who do not. I have spent my life as a fanatic reader, so my own vocabulary is bound to be in the upper percentile, but if I just try to express myself as clearly as I can without trying to be pretentious then I find that it is rare that anyone thinks I am trying to be pretentious. If I use a word that is not understood then I am, of course, failing in being as clear as I want to be and it is not unusual that I do find myself using a word that I assume will be understood and it is not. In those cases I have to stop and explain what I mean. If it is done in a matter of fact way without any attempt to belittle the person who did not understand then there is usually no assumption of pretentiousness then either. In fact, right after I had explained some of my terminology to someone once, that person compared me with praise to a certain other person by saying that what she liked about me is that when she did not understand something I just explain it while the other person would have tried to make her look stupid. It is when one tries to emphasize the fact that one knows an esoteric word that one is most likely to be accused of pretentiousness and, infact, in that case the accusation is correct. In the case of the two examples I mentioned pertaining to myself, I am far from convinced that there is any such thing as an id and because I was emphasizing it in order to be facetious my use of it did elicit a comment. The comment was that it was a big word. I fail to see how a two letter word is a big word. In the case of the word recondite, the two people I mentioned were highly enough educated to be proud of it and so were surprised that they did not know the word themselves. The one who expressed surprise that I knew the word and knew how to use it was the type who found it very hard to admit that anyone might know something that she did not, but yet, was confronted by the fact that she had just resorted to a dictionary and my own knowledge was confirmed. "If you tremble with indignation at every injustice then you are a comrade of mine." Che Guevara The Militant: http://www.themilitant.com/txtindex.shtml Pathfinder Press: http://www.pathfinderpress.com Granma International: http://granma.cu/ingles/index.html _ table with 2 columns and 6 rows Subj: [bksvol-discuss] Re: [bksvol-discuss]writers who use big words Date: 7/5/2009 8:11:10 PM Eastern Daylight Time From: kimfri11@xxxxxxxxxxx Reply-to: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent from the Internet (Details) table end Hi, Cindy, Kim here, I've had problems with people thinking I'm stuck up because of my vocabulary. I really don't feel stuck up at all and I don't despise them, contrary to their beliefs. Maybe they're too embarrassed to admit they don't know the particular word I'm using, but I think we learn if we ask questions. Penultimate is a good word. When I was in junior high or high school (I forget which) I read a story "Rappacini's Daughter" by Nathaniel Hawthorne (or was it "The Cask of Amontillado" by Poe, again I forget which one) that I came across the word Verisimilitude. Now there's a double-barreled word for you. It simply means "similar to the truth". Now you can be wise and all-knowing and say that in your opinion Author Z's book The Fribble (made-up title of book) lacks verisimilitude. I like that word and hope you do as well. Regards, Kim. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- From: bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Cindy Sent: Sunday, July 05, 2009 4:52 PM To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: [bksvol-discuss]writers who use big words My husband taught me the word penultimate and I use it when appropriate. I used once at supper with my daughter and son-in-law; my daughter (a well-educated pediatrician didn't know what it meant (of course, I was also well educated and an avid reader but I hadn't come across it before-or if I had I hadn't paid much attention. I told her what it meant but my son-in law, who wasn't in a very good mood, said anyone who used it was being pretentious.. Now I'm careful what I say around him When I was teaching, or when I'm talking to children, I try to speak normally and use a good vocabulary, explaining the meaning of words if necessary but not "dumbing down" my vocabulary Cindy Wish List (i.e., books wanted added to the collection) and books-being-scanned list available at sites below Wish List: https://wiki.benetech.org/display/BSO/Bookshare+Wish+List Books Being Scanned List: https://wiki.benetech.org/display/BSO/Books+Being+Scanned+List --- On Sun, 7/5/09, Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx <Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx> wrote: block quote From: Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx <Rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx> Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: [bksvol-discuss]writers who use big words To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Date: Sunday, July 5, 2009, 8:39 AM What gets to me is what some people consider a big word. Once, in an effort to be facetious, I made reference to my id and then I was accused of using a big word to impress. Id is a big word? Then, at least twice, in casual conversation I used the word recondite. Both times the person to whom I was talking reached without comment for a dictionary to look up the word. One of them then expressed surprise that I had used it in a way that I obviously knew what it meant. "If you tremble with indignation at every injustice then you are a comrade of mine." Che Guevara The Militant: http://www.themilitant.com/txtindex.shtml Pathfinder Press: http://www.pathfinderpress.com Granma International: http://granma.cu/ingles/index.html _ table with 2 columns and 6 rows Subj: [bksvol-discuss] Re: [bksvol-discuss]writers who use big words Date: 7/5/2009 10:03:32 AM Eastern Daylight Time From: akp@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Reply-to: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent from the Internet (Details) table end Hi all, I love being able to look up the occasional word. 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