[bksvol-discuss] Re: OT: children and learning

  • From: "Gail The U. S. Male" <gail1959@xxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: <bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Sat, 19 Nov 2005 16:24:18 -0700

Well, if I can, I certainly will, but their Mother is systematically
poisoning their minds against me. It gets even worse, since rumors are going
around that she has some kind of cancer. She makes it impossible to visit
with them, since something is always coming up when I try to arrange a
visit. She's also told some lies and made threats, so I'm extremely careful
about any communication, going through my lawyer at all times. Everyone says
once they're older they'll probably want to find out the truth about me, so
I'm waiting until they're out from under her thumb, and hoping to be able to
get to know them then.
-----Original Message-----
From: bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]On Behalf Of Cindy
Sent: Saturday, November 19, 2005 3:01 PM
To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: OT: children and learning


Gail,

I hope we keep in touch long enough to find out what
your children decide to do with their lives. Sometimes
it takes a fairly long time, though. My elder daughter
seemed interested in medicine,m i.e., watching the
Brain on television and liking biology, but she told
me "no way" she'd ever be a doctor--no way she'd go
through that much school. Not until she finished her
undergraduate work and worked for a year in a bio lab
did she decide to go to medical school--and then,
because she didn't take much science as an
undergrad--she was a psych-bio major in her last two
years, undeclared before that--she had to take the
necessary pre-med science classes for two years before
she could apply to med school--and she didn't get into
one her first year but tried again  and succeeded--so
she was 32, I think, before she was able to go into
practice. (I lose track of time).

Cindy
--- "Gail The U. S. Male" <gail1959@xxxxxxxxxxx>
wrote:

>
> They are still young, so who knows how they'll turn
> out. My daughter is 15,
> my son 12. It will certainly be interesting to see
> how they turn out. Their
> Mom is a total control freak, totally inconsistent
> when it comes to
> discipline. My daughter has already gotten into the
> justice system, since
> she decided she needed a prepaid cell phone more
> than the store did, and got
> caught.
> -----Original Message-----
> From: bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> [mailto:bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]On
> Behalf Of Cindy
> Sent: Friday, November 18, 2005 10:33 PM
> To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> Subject: [bksvol-discuss] OT: children and learning
>
>
> Wonderful! What do your kids do now? It sounds as if
> both were really creative and inquisitive and very
> bright. Your son sounds as if he would become an
> engineer or some kind of scientist. I can't guess
> about your daughter unless she became, among other
> things, a mountain climber. How old are theynow?
>
> Cindy
>
> --- "Gail The U. S. Male" <gail1959@xxxxxxxxxxx>
> wrote:
>
> > Both kids learned quite a bit about mechanics from
> > me though. They did a lot
> > of experimenting. Most of which I would rather
> they
> > had not done. smile My
> > son saw Mom and Dad putting gas in the car, so he
> > tried to put some in his
> > power wheels car. fortunately, I had the battery
> > out, charging it. that
> > could have turned rather nasty. He also destroyed
> a
> > couple of lawn mowers,
> > taking them apart, but losing key parts, so that
> Dad
> > couldn't put them back
> > together. It was lots of fun. smile He was
> > constantly bringing me things
> > he'd managed to take apart, but had no clue how to
> > put back together, or
> > he'd put them back together, *backward* so they
> > wouldn't work. Kid managed
> > to pull out one of those child proof things you
> put
> > in electrical outlets,
> > and stuck a screwdriver in. Made a nice bunch of
> > sparks and crackling noises
> > I can tell you! My kids got really sneaky, and
> > really quick at doing things
> > that Parents probably wouldn't aprove of. My
> > daughter managed to climb on
> > top of the organ bench, which was on the top of
> the
> > organ. to this day, I
> > can't figure out how she managed that one at 9
> > months. Since there wasn't an
> > obvious route she took. One minute, I answered the
> > phone, next minute I
> > heard her making noise from 6 feet off the ground!
> I
> > nearly had a coronary
> > over that one, I can tell you. If my kids show as
> > much initiative at work as
> > they did at getting into things as young children,
> > they'll both be top
> > executives in Fortune 500 companies. grin.
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > [mailto:bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]On
> > Behalf Of Gail The U. S.
> > Male
> > Sent: Friday, November 18, 2005 8:43 PM
> > To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: OT: heavy books
> >
> >
> > Andrew could certainly start learning Braille at
> age
> > three, as long as
> > Cassandra teaches him. My kids are both sighted,
> and
> > didn't want to learn to
> > read, not being interested, but looking at the
> > pictures. We both read to
> > them, but their interest was television. Part of
> > that was their Mom had TV
> > going 24 hours a day, and didn't take that much of
> > an interest in
> > interacting with the kids. I did what I could, but
> > was constantly
> > undermined, so, not much was gained.
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > [mailto:bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]On
> > Behalf Of Cindy
> > Sent: Friday, November 18, 2005 8:23 PM
> > To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: OT: heavy books
> >
> >
> > Thanks for the info, Gail.
> >
> > I'm wondering--if a bright sighted child who has
> the
> > inclination and desire can be reading by age 3 (as
> > mine were, just from my reading to them and their
> > following along, and some books that had certain
> > words
> > in the story that the child could read when the
> > parent
> > story-teller cme to it--and Sesame Street and
> > Electric
> > Company), and if young chldren who are brought up
> > with
> > another language in addition to English is in the
> > house can be bilingual at a very young age, by
> > couldn't a child as bright as Kasondra's Andrew
> > seems
> > to be, who seems to want to read, also learn
> braille
> > at a young age? I think Kasondra is right to start
> > to
> > teach him when he's three. One can make a game of
> > it.
> >
> > Speaking of which--I remembered when I was young
> how
> > I
> > enjoyed playing with alphabet blocks, and I bought
> > them when my children were very young and played
> > with
> > them with them and made simple words which they
> > read.
> > But I've never seen Braille blocks. I gather from
> > posts here that one doesn't learn Braille letter
> by
> > letter but that there is a short of short-hand.
> > Maybe
> > one of you could invent and create a graduated set
> > of
> > Braille blocks for kids. The first set would be
> the
> > simplest words that they need to learn, and they
> can
> > play at making sentences (Pat the dog; the dog ate
> > his
> > food). A more advanced set could be whatever the
> > next
> > phase is.  And I won't even take a cut of the
> > profits
> > for my idea (lol).
> >
> > Cindy
> >
> > --- "Gail The U. S. Male" <gail1959@xxxxxxxxxxx>
> > wrote:
> >
> > > Cindy, indeed, some forms of blindness are
> > > hereditary. Most totally blind
> > > kids start learning Braille in either
> Kindergarten
> > > or first grade. The child
> > > could be taught at a younger age, I suppose, but
> > > most kids aren't.
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > > [mailto:bksvol-discuss-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]On
> > > Behalf Of Cindy
> > > Sent: Friday, November 18, 2005 6:16 PM
> > > To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > > Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: OT: heavy books
> > >
> > >
> > > That's a cute story, Kasondra. How old does a
> > child
> > > have to be before he can start learning to read
> in
> > > Braille? Are you and/or your husband bind? Are
> > some
> > > forms of blindness hereditary? Forgive me if I'm
> > > being
> > > too personal.
> > >
> > > Cindy
> > >
> > > --- Kasondra Payne <Kassyp36@xxxxxxx> wrote:
> > >
> > > > Cindy,
> > > >
> > > > I just walked in my bedroom to answer the
> phone,
> > > and
> > > > I found my two-year-old
> > > > son, Andrew on the floor, trying to read a
> Harry
> > > > Potter book.  My husband
> > > > always keeps one on his side of the bed, and
> > > Andrew
> > > > just took off the cover,
> > > > opened the book, and started turning pages.
> It
> > > was
> > > > so cute that I just
> > > > thought I should share it with all you guys.
> > > Andrew
> > > > will read Braille
> > > > someday because he is blind, but at least he
> > shows
> > > a
> > > > healthy interest in
> > > > books now.  Yes, that particular book is very
> > > heavy,
> > > > but it was already on
> > > > the floor, so Andrew could move it easier
> > > >
> > > > Kasondra Payne
> > > >
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