i thought it sounded familiar... anyways, some nice thoughts Quoting Tony Yeung <Tony.Yeung@xxxxxxxxxxxx>: ~=~ that was in this yrs 340 newsletter, but instead of golf balls, it was ~=~ rocks, instead of coffee, it was beer.. ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ -----Original Message----- ~=~ From: Luka Milisa [mailto:lmil005@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] ~=~ Sent: Friday, 18 June 2004 1:30 p.m. ~=~ To: 340 list ~=~ Subject: [340] Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ Dear friends, When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, ~=~ when 24 ~=~ hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar......and the ~=~ coffee..CheeroZ! ~=~ =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= ~=~ =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= ~=~ =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D ~=~ A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in ~=~ front of ~=~ him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and ~=~ empty ~=~ mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked ~=~ the ~=~ students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.So the professor ~=~ then ~=~ picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the ~=~ jar ~=~ lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. ~=~ He then ~=~ asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.The ~=~ professor ~=~ next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.Of course, the ~=~ sand ~=~ filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The ~=~ students ~=~ responded with a unanimous "Yes."The professor then produced two cups of ~=~ coffee ~=~ from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, ~=~ effectively ~=~ filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed." Now," ~=~ said the ~=~ professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recognize that this ~=~ jar ~=~ represents your life. The golf balls are the important things like your ~=~ family, ~=~ your children, your health, your friends, your favourite passions, ~=~ things that ~=~ if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would ~=~ still be ~=~ full.The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your ~=~ house, ~=~ and your car. The sand is everything else, like the small stuff."" If ~=~ you put ~=~ the sand into the jar first," he continued, " there is no room for the ~=~ pebbles ~=~ or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time ~=~ and ~=~ energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that ~=~ are ~=~ important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your ~=~ happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. ~=~ Take ~=~ your partner out to dinner. There will always be time to clean the house ~=~ and ~=~ fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that ~=~ really ~=~ matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."One of the students ~=~ raised ~=~ her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. ~=~ " I'm ~=~ glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your ~=~ life may ~=~ seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend". ~=~ =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= ~=~ =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= ~=~ =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ ~=~